In Time


One of my dearest dearest friend is experiencing heartbreak similar to mine months ago. Comforting her brought me back to the familiarity of this hurt. 

Five months ago, I was left by the person I thought I could keep for always. I tried to keep everything altogether because I was still finishing my thesis then so I had to push back my emotions and wrote this at the back of my planner. 


Sent her this piece to remind her that it's okay to feel things, to devour the hurt down to your core and to let it break you. Because it will pass. The hurt will pass as time goes by. You will be yourself again, but first you have to learn to be wiser, stronger and softer. 


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